Monday, February 27, 2012

A Woman of Courage

In this series of inspiring widows I could not leave out the woman who inspired me the most. My Mother.

I was still an unborn babe when my Dad died. That tragedy (he was hit by lightning)  left my young Mother a widow with an 8 1/2 year old and an unborn child. It was during the  lean years of the Depression. She had no skills, no money (my Dad was a farmer). She must have been scared to death besides deeply grieving the loss of the love of her life. Their car was sold, so was the wagon to probably pay for the funeral. The mule had been killed in the lightning strike. 

There was nothing she could do but move in with my grandparents. She soon went to work at a nearby cafe/tourist camp cleaning rooms. Later on she walked 3-4 miles to town to work with the WPA, first cleaning and sorting books in the library. Maybe that is one reason I love to read so much! Next she went to work, the WPA again, cutting fabric to be made into dresses. Always walking to and from work, rain or shine, hot or cold.

I never saw my Mother complain about anything but she must have been exhausted from her daily grind and she'd come home to a tot of a girl (me) who wanted stories told to her as we fell asleep in the same bed. I can actually remember my Mother drifting off to sleep right in the middle of the story. 

My Mother did not remarry until I was 13 years old. My step-dad died several years before she did. Not once did I see her without grace, without a heart of gold. She drew such strength from her faith and from her upbringing. She set such a wonderful example for us girls... to tough it out through thick and thin teaching us that life is what it is and that we should make the most of every day, to be happy with what we had, and to be gracious to everyone. My Mom died in 1996. I grieve her still.


Dolores said...

Oh Latane, this is the sweetest post!!!

How sad for your mom losing her husband in such a tragic way and with a baby on the way.

I can see where you get your determination and courage.... you were blessed with a wonderful mother.

Susannah said...

Oh Heavens...what a wonderful woman she must have been. She sounded so strong and determinded to forge ahead with two little girls. I am sorry your Dad died in such a tragic way and he was so young. You certainly do have women in your family that have set an example for you.Now I know where you got all of your wonderful traits!


A Colorful World said...

Beautiful tribute to Grandmother! How I miss her! She was a great lady!

Lizzie said...

Beautiful post about your mom. I feel the love you had and still have for her. Mom's are the best.


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